Category Archives: Relationships


Musings on Marriage

Musings on Marriage

A few weeks ago my husband and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary.  If you know us well, you may be saying to yourself, "It's a miracle."  Honestly, you wouldn't […]



Getting out of the Doom Loop; The 4th Secret to Leadership of Your Life

Getting out of the Doom Loop; The 4th Secret to Leadership of Your Life

Here's what the doom loop looks like; you get to work and your normally friendly boss doesn't say hi to you.  You are sure that they don't like you anymore […]



Accept or Leave – Those are the Only Good Choices

What would happen if you both accepted each other's quirks and little annoyances? What if that acceptance actually made you closer and more willing to be flexible for and with each other?

There Are a Lot of Unhappy Relationships Out There
Based on statistics and what I hear from others, there are a lot of unhappy relationships out there.  Half of us […]



Why Changing Your Partner Won’t Work

Why Changing Your Partner Won’t Work

Annoyed with your partner? There might not be a whole lot you can do about it.
"How Can I Change My Partner?"
A lot of people ask me "how can […]



Forgiveness – Can You Do it?

Forgiveness - Can You Do it?

Who are you really hurting when you hold on to the pain?

Last week Hillary Clinton made a brief but profound statement about forgiving her husband after his affair in […]



Top Dating Mistakes that Lead to Divorce

Top Dating Mistakes that Lead to Divorce

"If it’s a red flag while you are dating, it turns into a billboard sign after you get married."

These wise words are from one of my clients who just […]



The Dirty Little Secret of A Control Freak

About six times a year I travel for business leaving my husband and at least two children and a high-energy alpha puppy behind.  My typical practice prior to leaving is […]