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Your Child in a Word

random scrabble tiles accompanied by the text What word do you hope will describe your child when they grow up?

Often, when I’m talking to parents of young school-aged children, I ask them to come up with a word or phrase that they hope will describe their child when they are eighteen years old. I do this to help parents look at the end of most of their parenting duties and focus on how to help their child develop into […]



Modeling Friendships for our Daughters

four teenage girls smiling and walking through a parking lot towards the camera

A friend asked me to write about the topic of female friendships. She noticed that most of her female friends are telling their daughters how to be good friends, yet not modeling those behaviors themselves. It’s an interesting, yet disappointing point of view and one that I see frequently. Ultimately, our children learn the most from watching how we interact […]



Finding Our Humanity Through Kindness and Compassion

crowd at a large outdoor event holding up their open hands

My daughter is a freshman at Pennsylvania State University. (Penn State for those of us who are paying the bills.) My girl is having one heck of a time at her school. She loves her sorority, her dorm floor, and the beauty that comes with being on her own and having someone else pay most of her expenses. In February, […]