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Why Do Bad Things Happen To Me?

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Many clients ask me this question, "Why do bad things happen to me?" It's an understandable question in that often there are difficult challenges occurring in their lives, sometimes even tragic situations. Yet let's take a look at this question and why it might be part of the problem or keeping us from solving the problem. Do bad things happen […]



Freedom to Choose

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One of my favorite books is Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. It's a must read. Frankl posits the concept that between a stimulus in our environment and our response lies our ability to choose how we want to respond. It's the exact opposite of, "The devil made me do it." It's also dreadful for those of us who like […]



Table for One

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Ten years ago, I was invited to New York to lead a training class for the American Management Association. I had three school-aged children at that time and I’d been working part time, but felt unfulfilled and exhausted from those early motherhood years. I jumped at the chance to travel alone, envisioning myself to be Marlo Thomas from the television […]